Soothing a baby: finger sucking and more

Soothing a baby: finger sucking and more

Our clever newborns quickly figure out that sucking on their fingers is soothing when they're upset. We can also help comfort our babies by rocking them, swinging them in a swing, or carrying them in a front pack.

Sucking is a healthy, self-comforting behavior for newborns. A three-week-old baby will resort to sucking her own fingers – or yours – as a way of calming herself when she's upset or trying to settle down. You can help your baby master this skill by leaving her hands bare (no mitts or covers), wrapping her up with her hands near her face, and putting a rolled-up hand towel or receiving blanket behind her shoulders to help round them forward when she's in her infant seat.

Baby carriers and swings to the rescue!
One thing babies this age have in common all over the world is the tendency to build up to an afternoon or evening crying session. This crying doesn't mean that your baby is missing something, or that you're doing anything wrong; it's caused by her maturing nervous system. Of course, knowing that may not help when you're listening to your baby wail. Try to stay calm. Rock, swaddle and sing to your baby. Carry her in a baby carrier during the day – it can reduce the duration of the crying later on – and try putting her in a swing; the motion can often help quiet a distressed baby.

FYI: At this age, babies are demanding, so it can be a particularly hard time for you. Lack of sleep and big changes in the old routine can hit parents very hard. Hang in there! Try to think of this as a brief extension of your pregnancy. Rest when your baby sleeps, and be sure to eat regularly.  

 

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Finger sucking

07/30/2015

Great article. My eight week old loves sucking on his knuckle. It's so endearing!

ARticle

07/27/2015

Great article. Very helpful

Thank you

07/27/2015

My one month old had his first crying session yesterday and I started feeling overwhelmed. I'm happy to know that this is normal and I'm not doing something wrong.

my baby

07/23/2015

great article!

play

07/17/2015

play is good but be careful about being too stimulating. a baby will "sleep" if they get too stimulated but its not a real sleep cycle so they wake up more upset than when they went to sleep.

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