Simple activities that are performed day after day provide structure and reassurance for kids. The same goes for yearly holiday traditions. Learn more about routines and rituals.
Kids thrive on the kind of regularity and predictability that seems boring to adults. Day-in and day-out routines make them feel secure and help them learn
about order. That's why simple rituals such as singing a song before bed become so pivotal for toddlers and preschoolers. If yours is a busy family with a
lot of unexpected events and hectic schedules, these fixed points may even be more critical for both you and your child.
Holidays are especially important times to develop regular family rituals. Eating the same foods, using the same special dishes and decorations, and
experiencing the same events over and over help kids understand their origins, values, and identities.
Get your child involved in the preparations, and talk about the events ahead of time. Show your preschooler pictures of the same event happening another
time, or of similar events that took place when you were a child. Although your child won't get all of the connections at this age, he's building a sense
of himself as a member of a family and a tradition.
If you're uncomfortable with your own family's traditions, make up new ones. Later on you'll hear your kids say, "In our family we've always done..." as if
your new rituals go back 10 generations!