Creating family routines and rituals

Creating family routines and rituals

How daily rituals help our kids feel secure and help them learn about order. Holiday traditions too, are treasured by our preschoolers. Get more details on rituals.

Kids thrive on the kind of regularity and predictability that seems boring to adults. Day-in and day-out routines make them feel secure and help them learn about order. That's why simple rituals such as singing a song before bed become so pivotal for preschoolers. If yours is a busy family with a lot of unexpected events and hectic schedules, these fixed points may even be more critical for both you and your child.

Holidays are especially important times to develop regular family rituals. Eating the same foods, using the same special dishes and decorations, and experiencing the same events over and over help kids understand their origins, values, and identities.

Get your child involved in the preparations, and talk about the events ahead of time. Show your preschooler pictures of the same event happening another time, or of similar events that took place when you were a child. Although your child won't get all of the connections at this age, he's building a sense of himself as a member of a family and a tradition.

If you're uncomfortable with your own family's traditions, make up new ones. Later on you'll hear your kids say, "In our family we've always done..." as if your new rituals go back 10 generations!

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Britt 9/1/2015

Great advice!

Time for a bath

8/30/2015

Taking a bath with a baby is our most favourite daily ritual. Great tips!

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Caseyt 8/29/2015

Traditions are important to our family. Can't wait to teach our little one our family traditions around the upcoming holidays.

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Tatum 8/27/2015

I cannot wait to keep the traditions my mother did for us as well as add a few of my own. Especially now that the holidays are coming back around.

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8/20/2015

I'm looking forward to more holiday traditions

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