Pretend Play

As your toddler continues to grow and mature, you may begin to see the magic of pretend play in action. Pretend play for toddlers is a central part of their overall development, involving and boosting language, social and emotional skills, creativity, and problem-solving. Read on to find out what pretend play is, what the benefits of pretend play are, and how to encourage your kids’ pretend play.

What Is Pretend Play?

Have you ever witnessed your little explorer lost in a world of imagination? Perhaps they are dressed up and zooming around like a fairy or superhero; having a tea party with their teddy bears; or digging for gold in the backyard. All of these examples and more are pretend play!

There isn't a narrow, single definition of pretend play, which goes by other names as well. Sometimes pretend play is called symbolic play, referring to when children use language, gestures, and props to create unreal and imaginary scenarios. Kids' pretend play may also be known as

  • imaginative play

  • creative play

  • make-believe play

  • fantasy play.

No matter what name is used, pretend play helps your little one grasp the world around them and boosts their physical and cognitive development. You might even see your child mimicking a grown-up or acting out household chores, as pretend play also helps young children learn about social interaction and behavior. Of course, pretend play for toddlers is lots of fun in addition to being an important part of their development.

When Do Kids Start Pretend Play?

Pretend play usually begins when your child is between 2 and 3 years old. When your toddler reaches the age of pretend play, they become more aware of the function of objects. You may see them chattering into a toy phone, making siren sounds when pushing along a toy fire truck, or feeding their baby doll.

Then, as your toddler transitions to a preschooler, their pretend play becomes more creative, elaborate, and physical—and there’s no limit to their imagination! Everyday objects become tools for your child’s imaginary world. For example, a blanket can become a cape or modeling clay may be used to make a delicious feast.

The Benefits of Pretend Play

It can be fascinating to watch your toddler’s pretend play and to see how much they enjoy it. As your budding adventurer creates a magical world full of fantastical ideas, they’re learning and developing many important skills. Here are the some of the benefits of pretend play in your child’s development:

  • Builds language. When your child role-plays or imitates a grown-up, they’ll use words and phrases that they’ve overheard from people around them. Your little one may also begin reenacting or making up their own stories. This helps them understand the power of language and develop their skills.

  • Fosters social and emotional skills. Through role-play with friends, your child can learn to cooperate with others and experiment with social roles. For example, pretend play with a doll or teddy bear can teach your little one how to take care of something and develop empathy. They may also deal with their own emotions, guilt, and conflicts through role-playing.

  • Nurtures creativity. When your little one is playing make-believe or dressing up, they are enriching their imagination and creative skills. Perhaps they transform into a doctor or assign roles when playing house.

  • Encourages problem-solving. Pretend play helps your child learn and develop their thinking skills while solving problems in creative ways. For example, your child may use and develop these skills when building a fort from blankets while preventing it from falling down.

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5 Tips to Encourage Pretend Play

Your support and enthusiasm will set the stage for your child’s pretend play and all types of development and creative activity. Here are some ways to encourage pretend play for your toddler and preschooler:

1. Feed the Fantasy

When your child is in their own little land of make-believe, try not to bring them back down to Earth. Feed into their fantasy by asking them questions about their pretend play. If your child is make-believe playing as a superhero, ask them what superpowers they have or who they have saved today. Who knows—you may even be invited to take on a superhero or nemesis role yourself and join in on the fun! Not only will this form of pretend play be fun for your child, but asking questions can also encourage the development of language skills.

2. Offer Props and Costumes

What better way to encourage kids’ pretend play than providing them with the tools to create their own imaginary world? Costumes and props for pretend play don’t have to cost much either; for example, you can give your little one some of your old clothes (hats, scarves, dresses, etc.) for some fun, inexpensive dress-up play. You could also provide your little explorer with a large cardboard box and other simple objects. You might be surprised at what can spark their imagination. Will they sail the seas in their pirate ship box; transform it into a majestic castle; or fly to the moon in their new rocket ship? Kids pretend play has no limits!

3. Encourage Building and Creating

Supply your child with building blocks, construction sets, or art and craft materials and watch them create! Children love to build and use their imaginations to create towers, buildings, magical lands, vehicles, animals, and many other things. You might want to suggest some fun art and craft ideas, such as making masks or paper finger puppets, to provide them with hours of creative fun. Not only does this type of pretend play spark their creativity and imagination, but it also develops their problem-solving skills and hand-eye coordination. You could encourage pretend play by asking them to build the tallest tower or create a dream home for their doll.

4. Read to Your Child

Reading to children from a young age can also encourage pretend play and imagination. Stories can open up new worlds and characters for your little one, as well as promote language skills, and there are so many wonderful children’s books to choose from. Head to the library or consult this list of some of the best children’s books for your toddler for ideas. During reading, you could ask your child questions, such as “What do you think will happen next?” or “What would you do if you were that character?” Story books can hold endless possibility for pretend play; you can encourage your child to act out their favorite part of the story or favorite character. You may even see them reenacting the story during pretend play with friends.

5. Limit Screen Time

In a world dominated by screens and devices, real-life social interactions and pretend play are vital for your child’s development. It’s important to pay attention to how much screen time your little one has each day, and to understand the effects of too much screen time on their development.

Experts suggest limiting screen time (TV, tablets, smartphones, laptops) to a maximum of one hour per day for children age 2 to 5. When you do have screen time, consider enjoying it together rather than alone. You could watch age-appropriate educational shows or snuggle up together with a fun movie and snacks.

The Bottom Line

Make the most of these magical years as your child launches into pretend play. As they explore the world around them, pretend play will be an important part of their overall development, building language, social, emotional, problem-solving, and creative skills while providing hours of fun. To encourage this development, look on in awe and wonder as they put on a show for you; encourage and support their fantastical ideas; and provide them with the tools they need to nurture their imagination. With Pampers Little Cruisers, your baby can play comfortably all day, so, don’t forget to get rewarded for all those diaper changes on our Pampers Club App!