Coping With Being a Mom: The Physical Challenge

Coping With Being a Mom: The Physical Challenge

We all know that motherhood takes a lot of energy, strength, and stamina. Find out how to move properly, using the correct muscles and posture, as you go about your daily routines as a mom.

As a mother and a fitness expert, I've always thought it unfair that a woman takes on one of her biggest physical challenges — motherhood — when she is at the weakest point of her life. In pregnancy, our bodies go through tremendous hormonal, anatomical, and metabolic changes. These changes may cause us to lose strength and cause new postural problems. Then, we have this new bundle of joy to carry around at all times while we're sleep-deprived and still recuperating from childbirth.

In fact, many aspects of motherhood are hard on the body. I know many women who experience more aches and pains post-birth than they did during pregnancy. That's why it's important for all mothers, and especially new moms, to learn to move properly and use the correct muscles in everyday activities.

Start with making sure you do three common tasks — nursing, carrying your baby, and pushing a stroller — safely and effectively, using the tips below.

How to Nurse Your Baby

Babies eat a lot and they eat often. It's not uncommon for moms to hunch over and bring the breast to the baby, or even to hunch over when bottle-feeding. This hunchback position done repeatedly may lead to back pain and poor posture. Concentrate on your posture and support whenever you feed your baby. Sit erect and use pillows (some are specially designed for nursing) to bring your baby to the breast. Elevate your feet and take pressure off the spine with a footstool. Try to keep a neutral spine, the natural curve of your erect spine, and not round over your baby. Have necessary items such as water, phone, and burp cloth within reach so you don't have to twist or bend to get them while feeding your baby.

How to Carry Your Baby

Babies like to be held, and of course we love to hold them. But any time we carry extra weight, we risk injury and muscle imbalances, which in turn can cause pain. Do your best to carry your baby close to you and toward the center of your body. Try to avoid carrying your baby on your hip, a position that can lead to problems with your shoulder, hip, and spine. Focus on keeping your spine straight any time you carry your baby. Pull your shoulders back and support your spine by engaging (activating) your abdominal muscles when lifting or carrying your baby.

How to Push the Stroller

A stroller ride is a great way for you and your baby to get out and about without you having to carry your baby's weight. However, proper form is essential to avoid injury and gain desired strength. First, make sure that you are pushing a stroller that allows for good posture. For example, if your stroller is too short for you, you will have to hunch over to push it. Keep wrists in neutral position, flat and not bent either way. As you walk, lead with your chest and pull in your abdominal muscles. Keep your feet and knees facing forward, and press your shoulders down and back (remember, your shoulders are not earrings). Avoid locking your elbows and hunching over —the two most common postural mistakes when pushing a stroller.

The Big Picture

As you're working on becoming stronger, don't forget to appreciate all your body has gone through to create this little miracle. Continue to eat, exercise, and rest as if you were still fueling a life. You are — you and your baby depend on your good health. This is a time to replenish, not deplete. Focus on drinking lots of water, eating nutritious, whole foods, and getting moderate activity every day.

Once you get the green light from your health provider, begin exercising slowly and gradually increase the duration and intensity of your workout. Don't give up if you can't find the time or energy for a traditional exercise session. Instead, fit in short walks or a few stretches where you can. And it is never too soon to start Kegels — those exercises where you squeeze the muscles that stop the flow of urine — to help tone the pelvic floor muscles.

Your goal is to restore and maintain what may have been lost in the transition to motherhood. That tiny baby needs feeding, umpteen diaper changes, constant love and attention — and a strong mother who can do it all.

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Tabitha 2/13/2016

I have definitely been hunching over while breastfeeding. I am going to correct that posture today!


Stacey 2/5/2016

It's so amazing how much your body, mind, and LIFE changes. It's so important to be mindful of your body and be mindful of the way you use it.

Getting back in the game

KAH 1/26/2016

I hadn't realized how much the pregnancy took out of me. I had my first real workout 7 weeks after my son was born and I felt like I hadn't exercised in years.

Me-time is key


I agree, it's definitely important to take 5-10 minutes each day to stretch, do a little cardio, meditate, make your favorite snack....SOMETHING that refreshes and destresses you. Even just a few minutes of mommy time is energizing!

Being 'mommy' can be hard


It can be difficult at times, for example, my 3 year old yells mommy all day long and my 11 month old does NOT sleep at's a struggle.

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